Making Home Away

So I sat them down and told them: the five of us are here, me, you and your father, wherever the five of us are, that place should be your heaven.
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Rima

Current 'Home' Jordan

Grandmother Rima describes the five month period before her family were forced to leave Syria, when fighters would come to their house at random, at first taking food, but later stripping the family of all their belongings:

"For months (there were) men coming in and out, going up to our roof top where I had two grape vines, of two different varieties. They would come up, sparing their own crops and eating ours. Two or three of them would come up with baskets and fill them up, then go downstairs with loaded baskets. I was just sitting watching them and saying “Saha, Saha” (an Arabic wish for health, said to someone who is about to eat, or when food is given), we were afraid to say anything else. As the expression goes, “a hand you can’t bite, you kiss!” What could we do?

Trailing plant with pink flowers growing on the tin roof of a building in Za'atari refugee camp, Jordan, 2019.  Image by Yasmine Shamma

They would just come and take whatever they wanted from the house, they carried the new fridge on their backs and I tried to stop them but they just ignored me and went on... Anyway, the issue of a stolen fridge pales in comparison to what has happened to us.  A few days after we left, we got the news that they burnt the house down. I asked, “why?” After they had taken everything out, mattresses, refrigerator, blankets, ceramics, the washing machine, even the thermos in the cupboard… everything."

Pickles, olives and condiments in repurposed bottles on top of a fridge, inside a tin building in Za'atari refugee camp, Jordan, 2019.  Image by Yasmine Shamma.

YASMINE SHAMMA

This extract is from an interview conducted by YASMINE SHAMMA during 2019 as part of the British Academy funded ‘Lost and Found: A Digital Archive of Migration, Displacement and Resettlement’  project’s Making Home Away archive.

Nour

Current 'Home'
Jordan